Category: Howard to Howard
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The bottom line: Jalen Hurts
Everyone has setbacks of some kind. I have experienced setbacks. You have experienced setbacks. Jalen is no different. Being benched at Alabama changed his life for the better. Let’s address some issues that many people have brought up about Hurts. “No other starting quarterback has ever been benched at Alabama.” No other starting quarterback at…
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Uber Date Night
I already know what you’re thinking. No, this isn’t some new form of speed dating or dating for Uber drivers. It has become quite popular for people who have had one too many drinks to call an Uber, particularly on a holiday but how about Ubering as part of a date night? I came up…
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Wedding Destination: Dubai (Part 1)
Saturday morning, 9:00am and not a single hint of a cloud in the Cobalt blue sky. The picture window view of the downtown Birmingham cityscape elicits a calming effect. We’re fully dug in on the L-shaped sectional sofa thumbing through our smartphones in search of Castle based wedding venues. On the flat screen is Tiffany…
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All roads lead to one love
At the time I was dating several other women simultaneously in Florida, Mississippi, Georgia, Tennessee, North Carolina, Texas and Alabama for the past 2 years. Jay and I had our first date on the 13th of September in 2020. Before you let your imagination run wild understand that there was no sexual contact in any…
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The 50/50 Relationship Explained
Yes, I know exactly what you’re thinking. Everywhere you look people are either saying there’s no such thing as a 50/50 marriage or a 50/50 marriage doesn’t work. The notion is both people should each give 100% in order for a marriage to be successful. Therein lies the fatal flaw in this philosophy. With the…
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The 50/50 Relationship
I fully believe that two people who come together in marriage should have a fair and equitable responsibility in facilitating a happy, rewarding, and fulfilling marriage–PERIOD. To each is his or her own but I don’t believe in a marriage where the husband is the sole financial provider. Nor do I believe in the old…
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Wills Creek Winery Ride
I’ve been so busy going on about my Rogue motorcycle camping journey I didn’t stop to smell the roses along the way, so to speak. Well, at least until Jay came into my life and made life for me a walk in the clouds. With that being said, the only thing better than riding cross…
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Managing a long distance online relationship.
Over the years I’ve had several long distance relationships across the U.S. and around the world. Distance was never really the issue of why they were relatively short-lived. The recurring problems were not having enough of a suitable pool of people to choose from, running into too many people who were habitual online daters, and…
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Howard to Howard
Too many of us focus on the destination not the journey when it comes to finding love. We dwell on how our desired soulmates should look, what kind of career they should have, which social circles they should be a part of and the love they can bring into the relationship but we don’t think about…